Couples/Relationships Books and Resources

Beatty, M. (2019). Co-dependent no more: How to stop controlling others and start caring for yourself. Hazelden Publishing.

Beatty, M. (1990). The language of letting go: Daily meditations for codependents. Blue Dolphin Publishing, Inc.

Chapman, G. (1973).  The 5 languages of love: The secret to love that lasts.  Northfield Publishing: Chicago, IL.

Daedone, N. (2012). Slow sex: The art and craft of the female orgasm. Grand Central Life & Style.

Evans, P. (1996). The verbally abusive relationship: How to recognize it and how to respond. Adams Media.

Gottman, J. M. (1999).  The seven principles of making marriage work.  Random House, Inc.

Haines, S. (1999). Healing sex: A mind-body approach to healing sexual trauma. Cleis Press, Inc.

Hendrix, H. (1988). Getting the love you want: A guide for couples. Owl Books.

Hendrix, H. (1992).  Keeping the love you find: A personal guide. Pocket Books.

Johnson, S. (2008).  Hold me tight: Seven conversations for a lifetime of love.  Hachette Book Group USA.

Karen, R. (1998). Becoming attached: First relationships and how they shape our capacity to love. Oxford University Press.

Levine, A., & Heller, R (2019). Attached: The new science of adult attachment and how it can help you find – and keep- love. Penguin Randon House.

Maltz, W. (1991). The sexual healing journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse. HarperCollins Publishers.

Muir, C., & Muir, C. (1989). Tantra: The art of conscious loving. Mercury House.

Melody, P. (2003). Facing codependent and facing love addiction. HarperSanFrancisco.

Schnarch, D. (2009). Passionate marriage: Keeping love and intimacy alive in committed relationships. W. W. Norton & Company.

Other Resources

Abusive Relationships

System Speak – Couples/Relationships with DID